a break...
a scrappy happy moment...
anything to take my mind off of what is going on...
Just warning you now...this will probably turn into a book! Read on if you like...I need to get it out!!
So I have been a member of a certain site for a long long long time. I had over 10,000 posts there. I have made what I feel are "lifelong" online friends...these girls I would do anything for and they would do ANYTHING FOR ME! i was on the DT there and loved every minute of inspiring my friends and being inspired by them. Well just a couple of days ago we get a MASS EMAIL from the owner, sheis firing us and starting over...we are "required' to complete our duties thru February. Now with that said, being off the dt is no biggie for me. I understand the ways and means of an online site and the dt switches every 6-12 months everywhere on every site. That is the way you get fresh new perspectives, new people, new ideas. I am all for that. WHAT I DO NOT LIKE is the way this all went down. A mass emai lto say we are terminated??? NO discussion in the dt forum on the site?? NO nothing...just basically a slap in the face saying we are not good enough for "the owner" and that we dont do enough for her. She wants girls who are active on other sites, that linger at other online galleries, and that can teach new techniques. DOES SHE REALLY KNOW WHO I AM AND WHAT I DO??? I am active all over the place, and I can multitask on boards like no other. Guess that is not really the root of my anger. I am not angry at the fact that we were fired. I am angry at the way she approached it.
I could mud sling right now and throw her name out here for all to see...I could throw links to the site and show you all just how much drama she has caused on her own board...which has now been EMPTIED of its' members because they were made aware of the situation and they left the board for another board. She also stated that the people on her message board just don't buy from her and she is NOT HERE to pay for us to havea place to hang out. Well well well...aren't we all high and mighty?? Guess our years of dedication to that site is all for nothing. That is the way I feel. Her lack of respect for her members and her now defunkt design team really makes me question her motives and her true feelings for us. After her email went out, the other emails from other dt members started flowing in and 'the owner" decided to do some mud slinging of her own and things got UGLY!!! I actually waited more tan 24 hours to respond to her emails....wanted to sit with it for a bit before I said anything I would regreet...well I got ready to send my email retort, tried to log onto the site and saw that
I WAS BANNED from the site...yeah you heard me right.....
BANNED!!!! She banned all of for what she said we were doing thru pm's???? she was reading our pm's. Very shady indeed. Only pm I ever wrote was to the members I absolutely adore and I wanted their emails...that was it...no more....no less....cuz I KNEW that she was reading our pm's. I am loyal to my girls and I wanted them to know what was going on. Just like you would let any best friend know of your life happenings. Agreed??
This is truly really all soo messed up. Nt only were we not able to say goodbye on the boards to some of our most dedicated online buddies, we were not able to tell our side of the story. This is ultimately what I HATE to see in the scrappy world. This is not why I scrap and I will not tolerate drama of any kind. I am totally washing my hands of that site and of her. Maybe one day soon I will come on and let you know just where this all went down...but for now I have integrity that "the owner" has none of. I care about what happens to ppl's feelings...she does not...she has to simmer and sit on the fact that her mb has now gone down the tubes and she will get plenty of "site jumpers" to fill her new dt call that are just there for the free product and that will still not buy from her store just as she said her current mb is not buying from her. I sooo wish this did not happen, but it did and it is over and I am thru with her.